Last updated on June 3, 2023
How satisfied are you with your current sex life ?
While most people might be hesitant to openly discuss their sex lives or explore sexual experiences with their partner (such as erotic massage, body rub, or adult entertainment), its important to recognize that sexual activity is considered an essential part our our health, and even solo sex can have benefits. Recent research has shown that many couples have different levels of sexual desires, which can sometimes lead to challenges in the relationship. However, studies have also demonstrated that sexually mismatched couples have higher levels of relationship satisfaction, as this mismatch can prompt them to work together to find strategies to reignite their desires.
A New Wave of Ethical Sex for Couples
While some women may feel uneasy about the idea of having a sexual experience with their partner or husband, I have personally witnessed a new wave of couple experiences that emphasizes the pleasure of both partners and fosters deeper intimacy. This is in contrast to the focus on hardcore sex depicted in popular movies and shows like 50 Shades of Grey, 365 Days, and SexLife. It’s important to note that ethical sex for couples may sometimes include threesomes, but the focus is still on the mutual enjoyment and satisfaction of all parties involved.
We are in the Middle of a Desire-Evolution.
It’s true that we are in the midst of an evolution when it comes to our desires and how we approach sex. As humans, we all have natural urges, cravings, and needs for love and connection, perhaps more so now than ever before. In fact, psychotherapist Esther Perel emphasizes that unintentional celibacy and a lack of eroticism in couples can cause a loss of vitality, curiosity, and spontaneity that is so important for feeling alive.
Couples are increasingly seeking ways to add excitement to their relationships and rekindle their passions, even from the comfort of their own homes. Shows like Netflix’s “How to Design Your Own Sex Room” and documentaries on pleasure are changing the way we think about sex. A new wave of ethical sex for couples is also emerging, using virtual reality (VR) to enhance the experience. I have personally had the opportunity to explore this with my partner, experiencing the Flow technology developed by the Canadian startup BrainWaves at the Oh My Doll locations (18+). Their VR systems promise a transcendent experience that can surpass reality, with recent studies even suggesting a connection between using VR and achieving a state of transcendence similar to that induced by psychedelics.
It is worth noting that sex has seen a decline in recent years, with factors such as social distancing and increased social media usage likely playing a role. However, the reality remains that sex is a form of self-love, romance, and connection that can bring immense pleasure and satisfaction to our lives.
Regardless if you have a high or low sex drive, are inactive or bored sexually with your partner, then I’ve got an experience that will definitely put the PLAY back in your next date that will fit your schedule.
What Happens when we Experienced the Future of Sex as a Couple with Kids
To give you a little insight, I consider myself more conservative when it comes to sex. However, my partner is the opposite… and also a man with high levels of testosterone dare I say… The funny thing is, I don’t think I’m alone in this scenario. Just ask a close friend. I have nothing to lose and much to gain in terms of my desires and exercise routine. Ladies, sex with your partner does wonders for your stomach!…seriously look it up. Back to my experience….
We decided to try something new and spice up our lunch date with something different. We discovered Ohmydoll, located in Edmonton, Alberta, which offered a fun and sexy experience for both of us. The experience was a bit of a learning curve for me, and there were moments that were downright hilarious.
“It was exciting, kind of like a first date… date.“
The host was very welcoming and offered us beverages to keep us hydrated during the experience, which we appreciated. They also showed us to our large and private room. The location was very classy and well-styled, which was a pleasant surprise.I would even recommend dressing up in a sexy outfit to really up the ante. The VR aspect of the experience was truly indescribable – it surpassed our expectations and left us both speechless.
We opted for the couples’ experience package from their Oh My Doll brand, which included a range of sub-categories for sex toys and VR options. We went all in and chose the Excellence package, which combined everything. It was an exploration that included a platter of sex toys and VR, fuck machines like the Motor Bunny Buck and an amazing VR experience that comes with Flow technology from Brain Waves for the most realistic effects and sensations. I was surprised by how effective it was and found it to be well worth the cost. I discovered some new toys that I didn’t even know existed, but were actually quite pleasurable. Although you pay for a two-hour session, you’re not restricted to that time and can leave early or even extend your time depending on availability. Additionally, there’s a bathroom with a shower available for use. (Images courtesy of Ohmydoll)
All in all, if you ladies or you mamas think that your intimate relationship needs a little TLC, then you may try incorporating some ethical sensuality and sexiness into your routine. Hop on the desire-evolution train because as technology continues to influence our lives, sexual health is becoming increasingly important. You can either reserve a session for you and your partner or book a solo sex-experience session. This place offers sex experiences for every gender and sexual orientation like this one.
Honesty for the Win!
While some may feel more comfortable accessing this type of experience solo, due to concerns about what their partner might think or if their sex drive is much higher than their partner’s, some people consider it to be infidelity while others believe that honesty is the best policy. However, going as a couple eliminates that issue. If you’re interested, here’s an interesting article from leading sex therapist Dr. Holly Richmond and marriage and family therapist on the topic, read her article here.
The opening of “Ohmydoll” in Edmonton and Montreal marks the expansion of a new trend in the adult entertainment industry, with high-tech body rubs and adult entertainment becoming more mainstream. This is a departure from the traditional model of erotic massage parlours, which is becoming outdated. As a result, it is possible that people may opt for adult playgrounds over restaurants for their leisure activities in the future. However, only time will tell how this trend will evolve.
As actor Billy Crystal once said, ‘Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.’
I hope you find a reason today to be curious and try a new sex experience with your partner because trying new things can help build a deeper connection.”